Today is Valentine's Day, which is historically a day when men frantically try to appease their wives by buying them flowers or candy or jewelry, but do little throughout the rest of the year to demonstrate genuine love. Christian men should be the most loving and caring husbands this world knows. I am not writing to debate the merits of having a Valentine's Day holiday, nor to say that "every day should be Valentine's Day." But in the spirit of the day, let me offer a few su